like just recently tracia styled herself with bangs and they were the short type like grimes and hayley williams's. in fact I thought that her hairstyle looked rather like grimes's in the music video for her song vanessa.
in fact i think she looks good in her new hair. not many people can pull off that look but she managed to. but sadly some people don't think so. personally i would love to have that same hairstyle but my hair is naturally oily so my bangs wouldn't look that nice. first of all, two people actually came up to me to ask about what's up with her new hair. one of them was even gossiping about it with someone else for god's sake. worst of all they pretended to like it and even complimented her by saying she looked like taylor swift. but then that girl came up to me asking "what's up with tracia's hair? why's she got bangs now?" and then she started telling me about how her and her friend who she gossiped with started judging her. as for the second person who asked about tracia's new edgy hairstyle, she wasn't so bad. it was just mere confusion because she hadn't come to school for the last few days and suddenly returned to see tracia with bangs.
what i'm just trying to say here is that whatever other people's choices, it's none of your business. if you don't like it, then just shut up. it's their choice anyway. it's got nothing to do with you so why care so much? if you like it, then compliment them. if you don't, then just don't say anything. if you don't like someone's new hairstyle or what they're wearing, then don't look at them. simple as that. it's not as if it's your own appearance instead of someone else's.
nobody's forcing you to look at them. sure you can give them positive criticism like saying how maybe you prefer something else but don't criticize them in a way that you're saying as if whatever choice they made was a mistake.
this is why people are so afraid of making different choices and doing what they like. they're afraid of being judged. i'm way over that. i used to be that way until i realized that life is just too short to live with a fear of being judged. i do what i want because it's what i want and what i want doesn't matter to anyone else. just like that dr. seuss quote says "those who care don't matter and those who don't care do"
my friends are okay with my choices and don't tell me that i need to change them. just like how i'm the same with them. i only give my opinion when they ask for it. like seriously. the world is full of fakes who only pretend to like you but talk shit behind your back. it's all pretty stupid but then again that's life and life is full of brain dead idiots.
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